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New Books to Watch For in January|2021

Essays from Joan Didion, George Saunders on why fiction matters and plenty more.

If your days are feeling monotonous, you might find entertainment and variety in this flurry of new books about subjects that span the globe. A Danish writer’s collected memoirs trace her effort to nurture artistic ambition in spite of a grim family life and, later, addiction. A biography revisits the lives of two pioneering sisters who paved the way for women to practice medicine in the United States. And a debut novel imagines a romance between two enslaved men in Civil War-era Mississippi. No matter what you’re seeking, you can find it in the pages of a book next month.

‘Aftershocks: A Memoir,’ by Nadia Owusu. (Simon & Schuster, Jan. 12.)

Owusu’s life has been a series of upheavals: She has lived across the world, thanks to her Ghanaian father’s work with the United Nations, and was all but abandoned by her Armenian-American mother. Eventually, settling in New York as an adult gives the author a chance to make sense of her identity. Images of earthquakes and their aftermaths recur throughout the narrative: As Owusu notes, aftershocks are the “earth’s delayed reaction to stress.”

The Copenhagen Trilogy: Childhood, Youth, Dependency,’ by Tove Ditlevsen. Translated by Tiina Nunnally and Michael Favala Goldman. (Farrar, Straus & Giroux, Jan. 26.)

Ditlevsen was well known in her native Denmark by the time she died, but few of her works have broken through in English. Her novel “The Faces,” perhaps her best-known work, details the unraveling of a children’s book author. Ditlevsen’s three memoirs, originally published in the late ’60s and 1971, are collected here in one volume. She writes about growing up in working-class Denmark on the precipice of World War II, nurturing her creative ambition and navigating her relationships, including a truly harrowing third marriage to a man who encouraged her addiction to Demerol. Fans of Rachel Cusk and “Borgen,” take note.

‘The Doctors Blackwell: How Two Pioneering Sisters Brought Medicine to Women and Women to Medicine,’ by Janice P. Nimura. (Norton, Jan. 19.)

In 1849, Elizabeth Blackwell became the first woman in the United States to earn a medical degree, and encouraged her younger sister Emily to follow suit a few years later. Their interest in the field unnerved many, especially men — one male dean of a medical school wrote, “You cannot expect us to furnish you with a stick to break our heads with” — though neither sister was driven by a strong commitment to the women’s movement or suffrage. Emily’s accomplishments have often been eclipsed by those of her older sister, but Nimura tells both their stories in detail.

Land: How the Hunger for Ownership Shaped the Modern World,’ by Simon Winchester. (Harper/HarperCollins, Jan. 19.)

Using his own land purchase as a jumping-off point, Winchester explores the political, social and emotional meaning humans have attached to property over the centuries. His book takes readers across the world, touching on dispossession, boundary-drawing and humanity’s “frenetic appetite for territory.” (Winchester, whose previous books have taken up the eruption of Krakatoa, the origins of the Oxford English Dictionary, a history of the Atlantic Ocean and other capacious topics, is no stranger to sprawling subject matter.)

‘Let Me Tell You What I Mean,’ by Joan Didion. (Knopf, Jan. 26.)

“Part of the remarkable character of Didion’s work has to do with her refusal to pretend that she doesn’t exist,” Hilton Als writes in the foreword to this collection, composed of essays first published between the late ’60s and 2000. The subjects on offer range from Ernest Hemingway to Nancy Reagan — though Didion’s own subjectivity is never far from the page, as usual.

‘Let the Lord Sort Them: The Rise and Fall of the Death Penalty,’ by Maurice Chammah. (Crown, Jan. 26.)

For many Americans, the death penalty is an abstraction, but Chammah, a reporter at The Marshall Project, zeroes in on the people — lawyers, judges, families — whose lives have been profoundly shaped by the practice. His focus is Texas, which has become an epicenter of capital punishment since the first execution by injection in the United States was carried out there in 1982 — and a state, Chammah argues, whose cultural identity embraces its history of harsh justice.

The Lives of Lucian Freud: Fame, 1968-2011,’ by William Feaver. (Knopf, Jan. 19.)

The second and final volume of this biography traces Freud’s life as his artistic output and notoriety soared. Feaver, a British art critic, draws on his conversations with the famously private painter, interviews with Freud’s family and friends, and more for this examination of a mercurial, manipulative and brilliant artist.

No Heaven for Good Boys,’ by Keisha Bush. (Random House, Jan. 26.)

Bush lived in Senegal while working in international development, and draws on those experiences in her first novel. Two cousins work in Dakar as talibé, boys who study the Quran at residential schools and are often forced to beg for money, food and other supplies. There’s plenty of cruelty depicted in these pages — physical and emotional abuse, family separations — but the moments of human kindness and hope keep the story afloat.

The Prophets,’ by Robert Jones Jr. (G.P. Putnam’s Sons, Jan. 5.)

This debut novel centers on a romance between two enslaved men, Samuel and Isaiah, in Civil War-era Mississippi. After another enslaved man discovers their relationship, he attempts to turn the rest of the plantation against them, believing it puts everyone in danger.

Sanctuary: A Memoir,’ by Emily Rapp Black. (Random House, Jan. 19.)

In an earlier book, “The Still Point of the Turning World,” the author wrote about her first child, Ronan, who died of Tay-Sachs disease before he turned 3, and the impossibility of parenting a child without a future. After Ronan’s death, she remarried and had a healthy young daughter. The essays here confront a wrenching question: How can you be the mother of two children, one living and the other dead?

Saving Justice,’ by James Comey. (Flatiron, Jan. 12.)

The former F.B.I. director divulged key details about his exchanges with President Trump in a previous memoir, “A Higher Loyalty.” Now, he broadens his focus and registers alarm about the erosion of truth and trust in the United States — and the ramifications for democracy.

A Swim in a Pond in the Rain: In Which Four Russians Give a Master Class on Writing, Reading, and Life,’ by George Saunders. (Random House, Jan. 12.)

Saunders has been a stalwart of the M.F.A. program at Syracuse for years, and here he adapts one of his courses into a book. His essays — paired with fiction from Chekhov, Turgenev, Tolstoy and Gogol — make a case for why literature is essential, even in unsteady times.

‘Troubled: The Failed Promise of America’s Behavioral Treatment Programs,’ by Kenneth R. Rosen. (Little A, Jan. 12.)

The author, a former New York Times staffer, began collecting material for this book as a teenager, when he was sent to three different therapeutic programs for wayward adolescents. His narrative — anchored by four young adults sent to similar “tough love” environments — shows that many programs inflict lasting damage on the people they claim to help. Ultimately, the book makes a strong case for reforming the practice. “For me, as for many others,” Rosen writes, “the programs were the start of a life spent circulating through countless institutions and lockups.”

The Best Books of the Year 2020

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5 Books That Will Change Your Life | Book Recommendations | 2021

Today, I am going to blog about a subject which is very near and dear to my heart and that is BOOKS. I wanted to share my favorite books with all of you and I also recommend you to read these book at least once in your life time. Since it is the last week of December 2020 and we always says about new year;

“New year, New you,”

So this idea pop-up in my mind and one of the reason is that I also wanted to come up with a theme around that. These five books will not only serve as a foundation for you to understand yourself better, but also those around you.

I am going to write about five books and in my opinion these five books will make you better all around you.

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Book #1 “What Every Body is Saying” by Joe Navarro.

First of all I really love this catchy title of the Book; What Every Body is Saying.” This book covers human body language and in my opinion this is very important because most of human communication is actually non-verbal.

Joe Navarro is actually an ex-FBI agent and he talks about all these unique tips that you can use to read people from across the room or even someone you’re interacting with. Even the smallest body parts, eyelids, cheeks, fingers.

When I read this book for the first time, it shocked me. I love people watching. I started understanding what was going on in each situation without even needing to hear what they were saying. The entire body gives us a better picture than just the face and I’ll use an example from the book “where if you look at two people having a conversation and you look at the direction of where their feet are pointing, that speaks volumes about how much they’re enjoying that conversation.  If you see two people sitting next to each other and one person’s feet are pointing away from that person, they’re ready to get out of that conversation.

Joe even goes as far as to give you simple tips to change your posture to allow you to express authority, to build trust with somebody else. If you put your hands completely in your pockets, that’s a very passive, submissive pose. Now, if you want to exemplify a little bit of confidence, all you have to do is take your thumbs out and that just makes your body language speak with more authority.

Book # 2 “Influence: the Psychology of Persuasion” by Robert Cialdini, Ph.D.

I love reading books on influence and it’s not because I want to manipulate somebody. People often think that influence carries a negative connotation. I think it is more manipulation that carries the connotation. Manipulation by definition is a shrewd or devious way to influence somebody for your own advantage.

If a patient walks into a doctor’s clinic and they have high cholesterol and high blood pressure just because they don’t exercise. It is the job of the doctor to influence them to begin an exercise regimen. This does not mean that he is manipulating them for his own advantage.

Now in everyday life, we not only need to be very good at influencing people at our jobs, whether you’re a doctor influencing your patients, or a teacher influencing your students, we also need to be aware of those who are trying to influence, or manipulate, us.

One of the concepts this book breaks down very well is something known as the contrast principle. And it’s something that sales people utilize all the time in order to get you to spend more money.

Let us considered that I am a sales-person and you are coming into the store to buy a suit. I will get you committed to buying this $400 suit and then I’ll offer you an $80 sweater, which is a pretty expensive sweater, but it won’t look as expensive because you’ve already spent $400.

Book # 3 – “The Influential Mind” by Tali Sharot.

If you want someone to understand where you’re coming from, it is going to take a lot more than facts and figures. Most people are influenced by emotions rather than facts and figures. You can see this right now on the news cycle. When somebody starts talking to your primitive brain, they do a much better job at influencing your thoughts and even your actions. When your mind is stressed, it’s much more easily influenced. And we see this after horrible terrorist attacks like September 11th. It takes one person to start running in order to get hundreds to do the same because in that stressed state, they are more likely to be influenced.

I think the real pearl in this book is that it teaches you how to communicate with somebody that disagrees with you. The way you do that is you establish a new concept that doesn’t necessarily disagree with their viewpoint but does agree with yours. Once you find that sort of common ground, it can facilitate that conversation and allow you to exert your influence.

If I’m trying to encourage a parent to vaccinate their child and they happen to be anti-vaccine, instead of going back-and-forth and arguing about the side effects of vaccines, I introduce a new point where we can both agree that the disease that the vaccine prevents, like measles, is a bad disease. If the parent agrees with me, we have a much higher likelihood of seeing eye-to-eye and agreeing on getting a vaccination for their child.

Book # 4 “Public Speaking for Success” by Dale Carnegie.

We all need to improve how we speak in public. To be an effective communicator, to share your story, to influence people, to be a better person yourself, you need to be able to be a better public speaker.

Dale Carnegie gives you some really simple steps that anyone can follow in order to be a better public speaker.  One of those steps that I take to heart and use in all of my speeches is the idea of verbalizing your speech or your talk before even doing it.

In this way, your brain can recite the information, get used to saying it. You’ll probably stumble and that’s okay because you’re practicing but you have to practice. This book provide a detail account about really great speakers, how they presented their speeches, what words they used, why certain speeches were more effective than others and that really goes a long way in order for you to communicate your ideas.

BOOK #5 “Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience” by Mihaly

Even though this book is called “The Psychology of Optimal Experience,” it’s basically a book about happiness. This is an evolving field of psychology known as positive psychology. And this is one of the first books I’ve read on the subject and I’ve become obsessed. In medicine, we always look at the negative symptoms, we talk about depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, but positive psychology focuses on the positive aspects of life.

What is flow?

When you are playing basketball, when you are rock climbing, when you are playing an instrument, you’re putting in a lot of effort and generally, for human survival sake at least, when we put in effort it’s done so in order to get something in return whether that’s financial return, sexual return, that feeling you feel when you’re climbing a mountain, playing an instrument, playing basketball, is called flow.

It’s a very self-fulfilling, authentic happiness that you feel. Flow explains that in order to feel happiness, to get that intrinsic joy in life, you constantly need to set these little achievable and meaningful goals for yourself whether we’re talking about cleaning the house in a certain amount of time, or reading a certain amount of books in a given year.

A great paradox that this book addresses is that we don’t spend our free time well. Most people can’t wait to leave work. They can’t wait to retire but when they do, they actually become unhappy and more anxiety sets in. When you are not activating your mind to reach goals and set challenges for yourself, like you are every time you’re at work, your mind fills that empty space with anxiety. When you have anxiety, that leads to more problems, more depression. When you’re at work and you’re constantly setting new goals and new obstacles for yourself, you’re able to reach those goals and therefore feel that reward system kicking in.

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